Males can you be just friends with a female you find sexy?
Like you want to sleep with her could you still be friends and not try to sleep with her
26-30, F
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AuRevoir · 36-40, M
50% of women are attractive in some way or other.. And then there’s that 1% where a person actually wants to date someone.. and make a relationship happen..
I’m pretty sure friends with girls is easier when you already have someone in your life.. because you no longer need to go out and try to find someone for yourself or your romantic interests as you have someone that fulfills and satisfies you..
But it would be difficult if you’re single because Hope would exist and maybes and what ifs would pop up in your mind.. I think it could never be just friends during that.. because there will always be some kind of lingering potential.. if you do remain friends with someone while single, that you’re attracted to them to such a degree as wanting sex with them.. it’s likely more from a distance.. as the closer you are to that friend the more you would want them for yourself.. the more you would hope… and the more you would hurt yourself in the long run, as the disappointment would be, your hopes and dreams becoming unfulfilled and facing rejection instead..
I’m just going off my own experiences.. if I’m not attracted to the girl it’s easier to be just friends.. if my interests are in another girl.. then I probably don’t even think of that friend that way.. so she’s not even on the radar of being “sexy” etc..
I’m pretty sure friends with girls is easier when you already have someone in your life.. because you no longer need to go out and try to find someone for yourself or your romantic interests as you have someone that fulfills and satisfies you..
But it would be difficult if you’re single because Hope would exist and maybes and what ifs would pop up in your mind.. I think it could never be just friends during that.. because there will always be some kind of lingering potential.. if you do remain friends with someone while single, that you’re attracted to them to such a degree as wanting sex with them.. it’s likely more from a distance.. as the closer you are to that friend the more you would want them for yourself.. the more you would hope… and the more you would hurt yourself in the long run, as the disappointment would be, your hopes and dreams becoming unfulfilled and facing rejection instead..
I’m just going off my own experiences.. if I’m not attracted to the girl it’s easier to be just friends.. if my interests are in another girl.. then I probably don’t even think of that friend that way.. so she’s not even on the radar of being “sexy” etc..