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Why did my best friend lie to my face?

I’ve posted about this previously, but one time, I googled my friend out of boredom, and found that her birthday was different than what she’d been telling me. She told me her birthday was on August 3rd, 1998, but everything I’d found (court records, voter registration) showed her birthday to be on October 10, 1998. I confronted her about it and she said that that wasn’t true. Well, we aren’t speaking right now due to different reasons, and I got bored again and decided to do more digging. (Which I know probably isn’t a good thing.) I found her birth record that has her parents name’s on it. Sure enough, it says October 10,1998. Why would she lie to my face about it? It’s not like I haven’t been celebrating her birthday on August 3rd. If she didn’t want me to celebrate her birthday or something, I would’ve understood. But why lie about it? My feelings are really hurt and I don’t know if I should just let it go or confront her about lying.
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4meAndyou · F
Well, some people are pathological liars. I've been married to one of them, so I know what they are like. They lie once, and then they don't know how to un-tell the lie, or even explain WHY they told that lie. Because there IS no explanation. It's just what they do...like breathing.
sabrinarose · 26-30, F
@4meAndyou I’m beginning to wonder if she is one.
4meAndyou · F
@sabrinarose It could also be that she thinks you are way too much into her business...and she is effing with you.
sabrinarose · 26-30, F
@4meAndyou fair enough, but why lie the first time? I asked her when her birthday was when we met in middle school, and she told me August 3rd. If she didn’t want me to know for some reason, why not just explain that she didn’t want anyone to know rather than lie about it?
4meAndyou · F
@sabrinarose Maybe she didn't want to be rude...maybe she doesn't want you to know...or maybe you have been asking her too many personal questions.
sabrinarose · 26-30, F
How is asking when someone’s birthday is too personal? 😂😂😂@4meAndyou
4meAndyou · F
@sabrinarose I give up. Maybe you are just teeing her off and she wants to eff with you because you are too nosy.
sabrinarose · 26-30, F
@4meAndyou Maybe.