Is it rude for an online friend to message your friends? How would you feel if your online...

SW-User

Idk, it's a bit odd. Doesn't matter if they're online or offline. If I tell someone I'm having a hard time in private, it isn't right to tell other people not knowing if I've shared that with them.

Jen92 · 31-35, F

I am not sure rude is the right word, was thinking more like creepy. I think I would put an end to that friendship.

DreamyCrush · F

It is very rude and an invasion of privacy. The only excuse for contacting my friends is if you're planning a surprise party for me and want to invite them.

Celt50 · 51-55, M

Yes that would definitely be very strange behaviour

Fernie · F

I never get that involved with people online

SW-User

Stalker alert! Yikes!

Skilllickous · 51-55, M

Fuck definitely

SW-User

Creepy af. They're insinuating themselves into your life without your permission. That screams of stalker behavior. Reminds me of that movie, Single White Female.

Peaches · F

If we're just "friends" I wouldn't care. Sounds like he needed to vent.🤷🏼‍♀️

Phrig · 41-45, M

That's stalker-like behaviour and a big betrayal of trust. Flags don't get much redder than that.

SW-User

Talking about you?
I wouldn’t like it much

plAfulandalittleNaughty · M

They need to be taught some boundaries

KingofPizza2 · 36-40, M

Yeah that’s super weird and invasive

SweetSeptember · 36-40, F

Very disrespectful!!

angel123 · 18-21, M

No

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bijouxbroussard · F

I would agree with you. That’s overstepping several boundaries. 😳