Is she being judgemental?
I was devastated when my wife left me for another man last april. A couple months on though I met someone completely amazing and we have now been together just over a year. We don't live together but spend every weekend doing fun events with my 8 year old son who idolizes her. She has healed us as a family.
My friend, Ella, supported me through the break up of my marriage and saw how upset I was. I would regularly cry to her. She was concerned that my son was vomiting regularly too and said it must be down to the separation. I disagreed with her as he got past it very quickly and was not really affected by his mum and I splitting up. My son has had tests done and nothing abnormal came up but he does suffer from food allergies.
Since school went back, I have had to keep him off three times and my friend once again said she was worried about him and said 'Are you sure he is really feeling ok about the separation and all the changes? ' I cant help but feel she is being judgmental. How do I tell her to back off?
My friend, Ella, supported me through the break up of my marriage and saw how upset I was. I would regularly cry to her. She was concerned that my son was vomiting regularly too and said it must be down to the separation. I disagreed with her as he got past it very quickly and was not really affected by his mum and I splitting up. My son has had tests done and nothing abnormal came up but he does suffer from food allergies.
Since school went back, I have had to keep him off three times and my friend once again said she was worried about him and said 'Are you sure he is really feeling ok about the separation and all the changes? ' I cant help but feel she is being judgmental. How do I tell her to back off?
41-45, M
