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Not a question. I am interested in your thoughts and feelings about what a friend of mine told me to do last week.

He was visiting here the day before Thanksgiving, and had..."an episode" of some kind. He passed out after I got him onto my office chair, I rolled him (on the chair) over to the bed, and I had to lift him onto the bed. I hurt my back pretty badly. He lost control of himself, and had no memory at all of my moving him.

I thought about calling 911, but I didn't because I knew my friend would be really angry.

He assured me later that he would have been very angry if I had called 911, and that he never would have forgiven me. He said if it ever happens again, he is a DNR but he wears no bracelet advising EMTs that he is a DNR.

I have begun to worry about my legal liability. Another friend told me that it may have been a TIA or small stroke.

If my friend had died, I believe I might have been legally liable for not dialing 911 but I don't know for sure. And I am not authorized to convey any sort of DNR information to the EMTs if such a thing should happen again.

I am interested in hearing your thoughts.
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samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
This is a very complex question. You never have a LEGAL requirement to call 911 or not. There are all sorts of problems with this question. If you are a drug abuser and a fellowvdrug abuser collapses, and you call 911, in some jurisdiction, if policebrespobd and find you "in possession" you could be arrested.

DNR is also only designed to prevent resuscitation, not all treatment.

Also no one has ever successfully sued someone for savingn their life.
4meAndyou · F
@samueltyler2 Well, we don't have to worry about the drug stuff. Neither he nor I do drugs. I am just worried about not calling 911 and then being held legally responsible somehow. I would put up with some yelling from my friend if it kept me out of jail.

I did find this blog:

https://blogs.findlaw.com/injured/2014/09/can-you-sue-someone-for-not-calling-911.html