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Your friend or best friend confesses that he/she has feelings for you more than just friendship. He/she is falling in love with you. What did you do?

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5thApprentice · 31-35, M
I come to SW and ask strangers on the Questions section for advice.
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@5thApprentice Funny 😁
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
The argument is....why ruin a good friendship by suddenly changing tack and making it romantic.
But there might be some logic in falling for your friends.

I mean at least you already know a great deal about them. Not likely you're suddenly going to discover they have a violent side or a are a bad gambler or drug addict.
FCNantes · 22-25, M
Being in love with someone's not like an on/off button...
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
@FCNantes wasn't suggesting it was.
FCNantes · 22-25, M
The argument is....why ruin a good friendship by suddenly changing tack and making it romantic.

Sometimes it can't be controlled.
Be honest regarding the potential that you may someday share the sentiment. Be tactful and gentle, but unambiguous and clear.
dumpstermeow · 41-45, F
Depends on which friend. 🙀
Tell them to quit playing >_>
RemovedUsername83534 · 46-50, F
Told her I wanted her too but not her husband 😏
I didn't tell them anything, we're pretty chill about it. Just because someone feels a certain way doesn't make anyone obliged to do anything about it.
Diyanne · F
I will distance away becoz I dont feel comfortable...but we can still be friends....
FCNantes · 22-25, M
Assess the pros & cons for both parties, & act.
I was just being my normal lovable self...sigh...
I turned her down back then. It hasn't happened again since then.
RUNAWAY AND NEVER LOOK BACK
SW-User
Turn into a blabbering fool because I am caught unawares and don't want to lose the friend.
hit that!. im a male.. if im hanging around a chick its because im keen as mustard..
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
Smack them very hard and tell them to get a fucking grip.
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@BlueMetalChick Yeah like snap out of it.
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@SimplyTracie Exactly.

Besides, who tf would be dumb enough to fall in love with me. You're better off being attracted to a viper.
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@BlueMetalChick Everyone loves those with a good sense of humor. That makes you adorable. 😊

 
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