I'm reaching the age where I'm shedding friends like a cast-off skin.

No. I appreciate people and put effort into friendships.

i heard of these Senpai.. what is it? nm i googled it

Recently cut off a very long time friend, irl, Bec she lied to me twice and also told my sister who has awful neuropathy, she should get out more, just get more *social*. 😦

My other college buddies from years ago, one of them kept making fun of me if I couldn't hang out. I just stopped contact, years ago.

It happed to me about the age 35 where it started to happen. I started shredding drunken looser friends and graining a higher class society friends.

To be blunt I stopped hanging out with criminals, drunks, low life's that kept on using me for whatever I had to offer

Friends come and go. Matters not

Like shedding hair, it's hard. 😞

I guess i'm a little less of a people pleaser now, I find more validity within than from others, and that is the way it should be.The good people will still be there when you're not so slovenly in your mannerisms.

Yes ...it has...I'm not a people pleaser anymore ..


I Stopped checking in with people who stopped checking in with me

I stopped making excuses for other people's shitty behaviors and othering it away

It's just me on my island

Ummm, you know IDC who doesn't like it in terms of the ppl getting peeled off . But ...I've always been a small group kind of a person so if we don't talk or catch-up after work etc ..and it's been a really long time since we hung out. I don't see what's the point of keeping them around. We don't even check on each other.

I've also cut back on posting about myself/my life. I don't think everyone deserves to know what I'm up to. If we really keep in touch, you will know.

I hit 40 and dropped it all. Nobody had any compassion or offered any kindness like I gave to them for years. I wish for better friends, but it's fine alone too. No drama, no figuring anyone out.

online friends i can delete, block any time,ill never meet them,never see them nor want too