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One of my female friends touched my arm in a way I can only describe as a "caress"

I doubt it means anything as it's the same friend who unequivocally told me she was not attracted to me when I asked her a different but related question. But I liked it a lot, and I haven't stopped thinking about it since it happened. I figured she did it just to be nice or something, even though I have a vague recollection of reading somewhere that in some context it means.... something. I just wish I hadn't failed miserably to touch her back or grab her hand like I tried to do while walking away (she touched me as I was just starting to walk away) because I'll remember that embarrassing moment forever now 😆 but it's a kind of affection I don't think I've received ever before (or don't remember it if I have). I doubt it'll ever happen again though. It never does.
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greensnacks · 31-35, F Best Comment
You're overthinking. It's not embarrassing, 100% she forgot about it the next moment.
And she probably did that out of kindness and love as a friend, especially if she told you that she's not attracted to you.

To a person that doesn't get a lot go touching, it can be memorable.
KiwiDan · 31-35, M
@greensnacks honestly that's what I thought. But I can't control my overthinking, unfortunately.

BohoBabe · M
You came your pants, did you?
KiwiDan · 31-35, M
@BohoBabe no I did not. It was just nice to get affection in a way I normally wouldn't
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
Just because she doesn't want you doesn't mean she doesn't want you to think she wants you.
KiwiDan · 31-35, M
@DunningKruger I'm under no illusion that anything would or could ever happen, even if I wanted it to.
greensnacks · 31-35, F
@DunningKruger oh god you're complicating an innocent reaction with preset judgment tone
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
@greensnacks Am not.

 
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