It doesn't sound like you were so much looking for a fight as simply wanting to confront someone about behavior that was bothering you...which sounds quite reasonable to me. In a comparable situation yes I have found myself annoyed by someone only to find out that annoyance had some underlying roots. People in struggle are rarely at their best. Hope your friend will be okay.

I wasn't exactly looking for a fight as much as I was to stop her seriously annoying behavior. Then I found out here & there things about her life & I felt bad for being so mean to her. I didn't "worry" about her after that but I definitely understood her more.

People tend to be the most argumentative in writing but face to face or video calls, not as much.

I have had a couple disagreements with people on here but then somehow we got to talking.

Cant say that i have but hope things go better for both of you ☺

No but I've found myself involved in a few heated discussions more than once.

It happens

nope ,never look for a fight,but now you know go help her out.

Why the fuck would anyone go looking for a fight.... What is it your trying to prove...

No.