Have you ever gone looking for a fight and ended up worrying about the other person?

It doesn't sound like you were so much looking for a fight as simply wanting to confront someone about behavior that was bothering you...which sounds quite reasonable to me. In a comparable situation yes I have found myself annoyed by someone only to find out that annoyance had some underlying roots. People in struggle are rarely at their best. Hope your friend will be okay.

People tend to be the most argumentative in writing but face to face or video calls, not as much.

I have had a couple disagreements with people on here but then somehow we got to talking.

I wasn't exactly looking for a fight as much as I was to stop her seriously annoying behavior. Then I found out here & there things about her life & I felt bad for being so mean to her. I didn't "worry" about her after that but I definitely understood her more.

It happens

No but I've found myself involved in a few heated discussions more than once.

Cant say that i have but hope things go better for both of you ☺

Hell no

Why the fuck would anyone go looking for a fight.... What is it your trying to prove...

No.

nope ,never look for a fight,but now you know go help her out.