Have you ever gone looking for a fight and ended up worrying about the other person?

A close friend from EP had been replying with one-liners, which annoyed me, so I video-called her for a fight.
Instead, she opened up about her struggles, and now I’m left feeling guilty and worried about my friend.

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SpectralMourning · 41-45, M

It doesn't sound like you were so much looking for a fight as simply wanting to confront someone about behavior that was bothering you...which sounds quite reasonable to me. In a comparable situation yes I have found myself annoyed by someone only to find out that annoyance had some underlying roots. People in struggle are rarely at their best. Hope your friend will be okay.