Was my reply giving bad vibes or cold?

[12/08, 8:48pm] Her: Hey how is everything going today? Sorry meant to reply but was tired on Sunday and rushing to catch up with work by deadline today.

[13/08, 10:46am] Me: I'm ok thanks. Been a good week been meeting up and catching up with my friends. Just what I needed. I hope you manage to catch up with all your deadlines. Speak soon X

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AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F

To be honest with you. You left too abruptly. I think she wanted to actually talk to you more a bit and your response felt like. I'm fine catch up on your work see ya!

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@AngelUnforgiven fair enough

4thdimensiondream · 61-69, M

You both sound a bit guarded, like holding back a little. I don’t think you came off cold though. Were you disappointed she didn’t reply on Sunday?

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@4thdimensiondream not really she has a lot going on. So I just accept that she doesn't always have the time to be here for me 24/7 In my current situation it's been essential and beneficial for me to get out and not have anyone "hold my hand".

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Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@geoam1 I thought so too. I mean, she said she had a deadline so I was just responding so she knew I was ok.
She said it came across cold.

Honestly I think sometimes people read me so wrong

BobbyMoeven · 100+, M

Huh?

No.

V00doo

No. Youre fine. Can follow up if you want.

Ferric67 · M

It seems ok

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@Ferric67 thank you I thought so too.
Maybe I could have been more reciprocating asking how she was. Ummm but I didn't really think that message warranted depth 😥

Musicman · 61-69, M

Nope! You are fine. 🙂🙂🙂

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