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Question, should I befriend my husband cousin?

It's a cousin from his father side of the family
I really like her (as a friend of course) and wants to be her friend and we get along well but the only reason I don't really tried being her friend is because the relationship they have with my mother-in-law is so so, sometimes good and sometimes not so good.

For me I have a good relationship with my mom in-law and I don't want to ruined that.
Do you think becoming her friend would ruined it?

People from my husband family already knows we get along well but I keep my distance because I'm scared of the future 😔
I really want to be her friend though
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AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
So you feel like a Hatfield and McCoy situation as if you are being friends with the enemy persay? Because shes from the side of the family where your mom in law has beef. So you dont want to be in the middle? Thats what im getting from you
Dontunderestimateme · 22-25, FNew
@AngelUnforgiven hahaha kind of.. they don't fight often but I'm a neutral person.. sometimes I don't agree with either side opinion but i just hear them vent about one another lol
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
@Dontunderestimateme got it! I would not let someone else's petty situations dictate my friendships. You have to do what's best for you in life. Sounds like her friendship makes you happy. You deserve that!
Dontunderestimateme · 22-25, FNew
@AngelUnforgiven thank you for making that clear for me 😅❤