smiler2012 · 61-69
@mindstruggle 🤔very carefully i get to know them are they trustworthy sometimes people pick you as a friend and again it is up to you to find out about them a little before you commit to much 🤷♂maybe a little cautious on my part perhaps
I choose friends here by who is compassionate, funny and will talk to me.
IRL, I don't know. I haven't met anyone I actually clicked with in many years. I tried but it ends up being stuff I don't want my son around.
IRL, I don't know. I haven't met anyone I actually clicked with in many years. I tried but it ends up being stuff I don't want my son around.
eyeno · M
At my age, you have a lot of time to reflect, ponder and question.
Got rid of so called friends, all except one.
Found that most were borderline if not narcissists, always taking never giving. They only kept me around if the situation would benefit them, especially when needing help and always love bombing,
Now: I'll look for givers and whats inside, not only common interests.
btw: good question
Got rid of so called friends, all except one.
Found that most were borderline if not narcissists, always taking never giving. They only kept me around if the situation would benefit them, especially when needing help and always love bombing,
Now: I'll look for givers and whats inside, not only common interests.
btw: good question
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
As what a friend said to me when I was on about another person after 4 years,she said that your after learning that you didn't know her
bijouxbroussard · F
Here, it’s basically people I feel like I "click" with, and like. In rl, it’s often been people who started out as acquaintances, but who ended up hanging in there for the long hall. That’s why the friends I met most recently came into my life in 1999.
mindstruggle · F
@bijouxbroussard
Good friends.
Good friends.
bijouxbroussard · F
@mindstruggle Yes. I’m godmother to two of their children. 😊
Reject · 26-30, M
I’m pretty open with friends. I’m not especially picky, but no one has tried anything before. I hear all these crazy stories and somehow no one has messed with me yet.
Kind and funny
Tarnished · 26-30, M
I dunno how to really explain it, we just vibe a bunch and talk/hang out over similar interests to start I think.
I'm very selective not because I'm so great or anything..I have trust issues
mindstruggle · F
@pripyatamusementpark
I can't blame you. 🩷
I can't blame you. 🩷
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
My friend my only advise is * Never get to attached cause you'll end up getting hurt "
SwampFlower · 31-35, F
I feel a click, like their vibe, observe them doing something really respectable, different reasons I guess
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TurtlePink · 22-25, F
I keep choosing the wrong ones
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@TurtlePink What am I, chopped liver. 😒🤭
mindstruggle · F
@TurtlePink
Same. It's always one sided for me. 😔
Same. It's always one sided for me. 😔
By just feeling comfort with them
Ducky · 31-35, F
Wisely
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
I don't really have friends in real life.
Iwillwait · M
I'm not sure, I choose so much as be chosen.
nedkelly · 61-69, M
I do not want any friends at all, as we prefer our own company
TheOneyouwerewarnedabout · 46-50, MVIP
Coin flip
Alyosha · 31-35, M
I pick the ones who are bright and honest. It narrows down the pool of possible options considerably.
NerdyPotato · M
I don't. They adopt me.
@NerdyPotato That does seem to be pretty much how it goes for you... 🤣🤣🤣
nazgul · 26-30, F
I kinda just chose not to have any.
I choose ones who hate me, that's why we're friends 🥰
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mindstruggle · F
@UBotMate
You must hate your own self pffft
You must hate your own self pffft
@mindstruggle No, I love me and you equally 🥰
hunkalove · 61-69, M
Actually, my parole officer chooses them.
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
They match my vibration
Degbeme · 70-79, M
By their love for frogs.
The same way I choose my Swiss cheese. By the number of holes.
LeopoldBloom · M
You can pick your friends, and you can pick your nose, so why can’t you pick your friends’ noses?
come2gether · 46-50, M
The women that will get naked for me. Thus, I have no friends at all 😔
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mindstruggle · F
@Tumbleweed
Nah you're good.
Nah you're good.
ShenaniganFoodie · 36-40, M
spin the bottle
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