Why do you think certain people get laughed at or bullied?

Ive been a social butterfly all my life. I did what i wanted, asked out boys (always got rejected) i realized a few years ago that i didnt have much self awareness. My best mate from high school said every guy wanted me but no one asked me out. But now that im older i get tons of guy attention but the girls HATE me.
I realized i had a friend that was connected to everyone else and the "friends" i made that were girls secretly hated me for some reason. I didnt sleep with no ones boyfriend or anything so i dont know why im singled out and made fun of

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1988kirill · 36-40, M

Yeah, sounds normal. Girls have a super heightened awareness of competition from other girls and if they sense that you are being strongly desired by the opposite sex they will ostracize you and intuitively try to make you feel lesser. So to get on the girls good side you need to know how to make them feel "safe" by controling your desirability by the opposite sex which takes a tonne of self awareness.

bijouxbroussard · F

@1988kirill Funny, when I was in school some of the most popular girls with other girls were the ones perceived as very desirable to boys. Those beta girls apparently thought they’d pick up "leftovers" by befriending the popular girls.

1988kirill · 36-40, M

@bijouxbroussard yeah, this idea of "picking up left-overs" is not uncommon among boys too, although usually group dynamics with boys are less complex than girls