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Why do you think certain people get laughed at or bullied?

Ive been a social butterfly all my life. I did what i wanted, asked out boys (always got rejected) i realized a few years ago that i didnt have much self awareness. My best mate from high school said every guy wanted me but no one asked me out. But now that im older i get tons of guy attention but the girls HATE me.
I realized i had a friend that was connected to everyone else and the "friends" i made that were girls secretly hated me for some reason. I didnt sleep with no ones boyfriend or anything so i dont know why im singled out and made fun of
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1988kirill · 36-40, M
Yeah, sounds normal. Girls have a super heightened awareness of competition from other girls and if they sense that you are being strongly desired by the opposite sex they will ostracize you and intuitively try to make you feel lesser. So to get on the girls good side you need to know how to make them feel "safe" by controling your desirability by the opposite sex which takes a tonne of self awareness.
@1988kirill Funny, when I was in school some of the most popular girls with other girls were the ones perceived as very desirable to boys. Those beta girls apparently thought they’d pick up "leftovers" by befriending the popular girls.
1988kirill · 36-40, M
@bijouxbroussard yeah, this idea of "picking up left-overs" is not uncommon among boys too, although usually group dynamics with boys are less complex than girls
Cigarguy101 · 41-45, M
I have tourette's syndrome so I've been laughed at, made fun of bullied most of my life. It was so bad I dropped out of school because of this. It still happens almost every day
powernap · 56-60, M
The girls that "secretly" hated you probably saw you as a threat to their success. In fact, I would guess that was the reason. You said all the guys wanted wanted you.
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Sorry that happened to you.
496sbc · 36-40, M
why did u get rejected hun. thats sad
pancakeslam · 41-45, M
Immaturity, though some people never grow out of it. Let them be a distant memory and do your thing
Tumbleweed · F
Jealousy. Girls are like that.
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
Because there different and there afraid to become it
Gmoney601 · 36-40, F
They are jealous girl
Zonuss · 46-50, M
Because you stand out.
Because they dont fight back
Once you fight that bully win or lose they dont bother you again
@rocknroll sometimes one just has to be brave enough to confront them or invite them outside! “Put up or shut up.” 🙂
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