Why would someone tell me that they sometimes think I don’t like them?

I fell like I’m always polite but they said I am hard to figure out because I sometimes don’t have alot of expression in my face. To be honest it kinda makes me feel a bit insecure when someone tell me that because I feel like I am friendly…

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twistedrope · 26-30, M

Its any number of reasons in my experience. Could be you gotta wall between you and them or show no vulnerability. On the other side, maybe some folks just expect too much while giving so little!

Me personally? I take an not-so-intense interest in the things people like or do and they tend to respond well. Then just... say my experience with whatever insane thing they say.

Or I'm just wrong. That's also possible. In broad strokes, I learned as a receptionist and librarian to always be happy to see people. I'm a lonely guy so its not too hard to just... enjoy the company of people. Makes me unique amongst my dept. really.