GabbySA8 · F
If your group splits this easily it wasnt ever really a group
twistedrope · 26-30, M
Whether you reach out or not, I ask you remember to relax. Things could go well or they could go horribly wrong. You can't speak for the group in wanting to invite them back in.
If you are reaching out to these people, talk to one individually as if it's just you. Friendships groups are all in the end, just 1-1 friendships between people keeping em together. imo.
And yeah. I had a friendship group of about 11 and I only talk to one of them now and he... really only talks to two of them. And the other guy is a lovely chap I have always enjoyed my time with him. Each of the other 8 were just... not very interested in me. And it was very clear once I thought it through.
I do not regret their loss, i am disappointed to have met such selfish indolent people.
If you are reaching out to these people, talk to one individually as if it's just you. Friendships groups are all in the end, just 1-1 friendships between people keeping em together. imo.
And yeah. I had a friendship group of about 11 and I only talk to one of them now and he... really only talks to two of them. And the other guy is a lovely chap I have always enjoyed my time with him. Each of the other 8 were just... not very interested in me. And it was very clear once I thought it through.
I do not regret their loss, i am disappointed to have met such selfish indolent people.
DHggmu · 31-35, M
Some friendships stay strong and never die, some fade like they never existed, that’s just life.