Why do I feel bad? 😔

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Maybe??

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Over the past months, one of my closest friends started distancing herself from our group. Little by little we could tell that she was drifting away from us. And later I learned that she has a new friend group, which is fine, I didn’t take it as there being anything wrong with that. But as time went on, she ignored us completely… And we’ve supported her through some of the most difficult and painful moments in her life… I don’t think I did anything wrong, then why do I feel so guilty??

My question is, is it worth fighting for a friendship that you feel is lost? 🙁

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MrBrownstone · 46-50, M

Sometimes people drift apart. I had friends for 10 years that I lost. You just feel guilty because you always think about what you could have done differently. But people drift away. It happens.

Ashly · 26-30, F

@MrBrownstone I do, I feel like I haven’t done anything wrong but maybe because I’m looking for a reason?

MrBrownstone · 46-50, M

@Ashly Didn’t want to lose her . Means she meant something to you.

Ashly · 26-30, F

@MrBrownstone yes of course, we’ve been friends since middle school, we grew up together, I guess she just grew out of our friendship 😔

samueltyler2 · 80-89, M

@Ashly then why not ask?.

MrBrownstone · 46-50, M

@Ashly Sucks I know. You will have the memories.

Ashly · 26-30, F

@samueltyler2 I’ve tried, various times, I’ve gone out of my way to try and talk to her
Even her mom knows that she’s ignoring us 😔

samueltyler2 · 80-89, M

Sadly, then, it is time to cut your loses. @Ashly