How do you make friends in the real world?
I am in a new place and seem to have no clue.
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Probably the way you do anywhere in the world. People usually don't come to you, you have to reach out and come to them. Introduce yourself. Go to Denny's or a fast food restaurant inside, sit at the table and say hello to people as they pass and make friends. You could even visit a bowling alley or something, or a church and make friends. Join a gym.
JovialMoose · 46-50, M
LordShadowfire · 100+, M
@JovialMoose I'm glad I'm not the first person to suggest it.
PeacefulEntity · 61-69, M
ElwoodBlues · M
@PeacefulEntity Yep, volunteer groups are a great way to meet people.
TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart · 22-25, F
PeacefulEntity · 61-69, M
@TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart solid friends don't. Wimpy ones do.
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
@TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart
You be looking for a real friend right .
The question you ask and I asked it myself ‘ What is a real friend ?’
What’s your expectations of a real friend cause if your expectations don’t meet your reality of a real friend I’ll tell you one thing your going to end up very disappointed, especially with friends , even in relationships .
As what one person said to me ‘
Be your own lamp “ It’s a buddha quote but a very good one .
A friend said to me about highs you get from life cause if your chasing highs all your life , not saying you are cause I’m referring to this in general , expect the depressions.
You be looking for a real friend right .
The question you ask and I asked it myself ‘ What is a real friend ?’
What’s your expectations of a real friend cause if your expectations don’t meet your reality of a real friend I’ll tell you one thing your going to end up very disappointed, especially with friends , even in relationships .
As what one person said to me ‘
Be your own lamp “ It’s a buddha quote but a very good one .
A friend said to me about highs you get from life cause if your chasing highs all your life , not saying you are cause I’m referring to this in general , expect the depressions.
orioninthenight · M
its a lie, theres no such thing as friends, there are only shared interests that come and go like seasons
@orioninthenight the good ones will stay
JasminD · 22-25, F
Something that I struggle with too. If you've got an idea, please let me know...
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Sroonaka616 · 31-35, M
It helps if you talk to people about things.
spice1 · M
Have you tried talking to anyone face to face?
Take exercise or yoga classes.
asalezm · 31-35, F
Tell me, if you understand.
be ur own friend, u already know urself
LordShadowfire · 100+, M
