What can a friend do that will make you feel special?

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What can a friend do that will make you feel special?

Maha123k · 31-35, F

I think to tell you how much they love you and care for you and what u meant for them and appreciate u .. for doing good for them ..

elafina · 36-40, F

Devote time for me, reaching out and be there with me. Little surprise presents are always welcome:)

Raaii · 22-25, F

I've no expectations from th friends
I feel like it's just one side
They don't care about me
Anyway I've just isolated myself so can't blame anyone anymore
But I'll feel special if they just remember me inside like
I do remember too 🙇‍♀️

Blondily · F

Be there unconditionally thru thick and thin.

PhoenixPhail · M

@Blondily Good luck in finding that. People say they have unconditional consideration for you and that you'll never be judged by them. That's an idea. They may truly believe that's how they are with you. But when it comes to implementation - that is, when you show them a condition they take exception to or have a sensitivity about - the idea goes out the window, and whatever gets triggered in them takes over. THAT'S when you'll see how conditional their caring for you really is.

People have been indoctrinated to practice conditional caring as UNconditional. Until there's any sign of your not meeting their conditions, it's smooth sailing. But once their conditionalism is challenged, their judgments will show up, and you'll see how conditional their considerations for you really are.

PhoenixPhail · M

Just call or write every once in a while. Recognizing my existence would let me know they still care.

Pfuzylogic · M

Defend my name when i’m not around.

GlitterEater · 36-40, F

Reach out to me when they are upset.

mindstruggle

@GlitterEater
May I? 👀

PhilDeep · 51-55, M

Make time for me and then be present during that time.

I don't know about it making me feel special, but it might mean I am special to them.

Reject · 26-30, M

Friends can’t do that for me. I appreciate them, but making me special takes a lot more than a friend.

deadteddy · 26-30, F

When they Always remember your birthday

hunkalove · 61-69, M

Buy me a car.

mindstruggle

@hunkalove
Wow you have a high standard lol

vetguy1991 · 51-55, M

Just have my back

NerdyPotato · M

mindstruggle

@NerdyPotato
Face and body like Megan Fox?

NerdyPotato · M

@mindstruggle nah, just getting undressed.

mindstruggle

@NerdyPotato
😶

Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M

Depends on the friend, of course. But making time for someone is always something a good friend would do. Being a good listener is as well.

bijouxbroussard · F

Listen when I need that.

thinkingoutloud · F

It's not any specific thing. More like the whole attitude towards me that signals to me my importance.

EarthlingWise

Remember a few things I told them about, not confusing me with someone else.

AngelKrish · 26-30, M

Listen me and I will listen them ...share good time and create good memories!

NerdySoph · 26-30, F

Make iced tea or lemonade.
Plus send a boatload of money.

scorpiolovedeep · 46-50, M

Spend valuable time and appreciate your company.

SW-User

Send me pics of her ring finger.

SW-User

Turn up unannounced

calicuz · 51-55, M

Buy me lunch.

Zeusdelight · 61-69, M

Be a friend.

hartfire

I'm not special and wouldn't want to be special in any way.

If a friend listens when I'm in need, I feel deep and lasting gratitude.
If they show empathy and understanding, they've won me for life.

KA9ha · 31-35, M

nothing..

PoetryNEmotion · F

Call or text or leave me a few words. Ask me how I am. Tell me they are thinking of me.

deathfairy ·

spend time w me. the most expensive gift you can give to someone is ur time.

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

Listen to me when I need to talk and I will do the same

Lilnonames · F

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