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PhoenixPhail · M
@Blondily Good luck in finding that. People say they have unconditional consideration for you and that you'll never be judged by them. That's an idea. They may truly believe that's how they are with you. But when it comes to implementation - that is, when you show them a condition they take exception to or have a sensitivity about - the idea goes out the window, and whatever gets triggered in them takes over. THAT'S when you'll see how conditional their caring for you really is.
People have been indoctrinated to practice conditional caring as UNconditional. Until there's any sign of your not meeting their conditions, it's smooth sailing. But once their conditionalism is challenged, their judgments will show up, and you'll see how conditional their considerations for you really are.
People have been indoctrinated to practice conditional caring as UNconditional. Until there's any sign of your not meeting their conditions, it's smooth sailing. But once their conditionalism is challenged, their judgments will show up, and you'll see how conditional their considerations for you really are.
