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How do you deal with a Narcissistic friend?

A friend of mine keeps making sly remarks with the intention of putting other downs.. often in a backhanded and subtle manner.. Recently, some of us friends went on a trip without inviting her. She made a big deal out of it and started sending hateful texts to the group that went out. I feel this has been like a final breaking point in our friendship..
Problem is she is an old friend. Do I completely cut her off? Anybody has dealt with similar people?
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kentex35 · 100+, M
I have. Narcissists are all about themselves. The only thing that matters is that others love them like they love themselves. And it will always be something they put down anyone that disagrees or did not fancy them enough. They tend to project their shortcomings onto another even if you just watched them they will deny it. They are usually mega liars and often violent. If you were married to them and did everything they asked they would still cheat and put you down. There is no cure. If you are dear friend you can try to talk if you are sentimental friends just because you have known her so long let go . The therapy is talk therapy. I don't know much about that. I have my own narc and talk therapy on a group seeing just send s like an oxymoron. Just be on guard when you are around her.