So I can get adequate attention and have someone to share my random thoughts with throughout the day without being clingy and dumping it all on two people.
Everyone needs friends but can’t find the kind of friends they think they want and pass up the ones that can be good friends. Almost the same as an old song called I overlooked an orchid while searching for a rose.
@Selah ah yeah, I see that a lot too. I've had surprisingly good luck with not attracting people like that. I think being myself helps weed out insincere people. I'm not good at faking friendliness.