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Most of my friends are either dating or married now except for me

And I feel alone. I wrote something about how I'm feeling in all of this about how Noah's ark had animals going in two-by-two. When I try to enter, I'm denied entry unless I can find my other half and, when looking for the person, it starts to rain, and I look at the Ark as they float away and I drown in the Flood.
rrraksamam · 31-35, M
I'm a decade older than you. My experience says you're better off alone than with someone who'll bring you nothing but pain and misery.
And believe me, a lot of married people are quite unhappy. If you witnessed some of the disasters married people go through, you'd be thanking the Lord you were still single.
If you look at the SW timeline, you'll see a lot of men and women who are either dating or married, yet desperate for attention, affection, valuation and validation. This is just one site...

Don't be fooled by the idea of marriage. It takes hard work and sacrifice to make it work, and even then, a lot of partners are left unhappy and unsatisfied.
SW-User
Well Ig its time for you to find a new group, Tbh its awkward to hang out with married ppl either way cuz i cant relate to their mY huBby did this yesterday talk it gets repetitive, like rn all my friends are in school too but if they're suddenly making marriage plans im out, you won't fit in esp when they have kids
th3r0n · 41-45, M
@SW-User some of my friends are married, they're busy and have less time but I still like to see them when I can

I really want to be married, to my best friend Brii

I guess I would be busy all the time too if that happened, in a good way

I got a new job working for a company as opposed to being a contractor and start soon, and worked to get in better shape, and I've been working on all aspects of my self and life to be better for her, I just pray it's enough, I want to marry her and make her happy so badly
I feel ya because I'm the only one left out of all my friends who's single with no kids & I'm in the same age group as you.
I've had some failed relationships & I made my peace. Honestly, I do like company but I'm learning to enjoy my own as well
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
@ChiefWalksWith40oz but you’re too young as well to be married with kids! Go to college or travel the world. Buy a home. Volunteer in third world countries. There’s so much you can be doing before you end your life as you know it with marriage!!
jackjjackson · 61-69, M
That’s some sage advice boys. @Jenny1234
@Jenny1234 getting married is honestly not a goal of mine lol but who knows & you're right. Thank you 😌
spjennifer · 56-60, T
Don't be so desperate to marry, in my demographic, about 70% of my peers who married young got divorced, the statistics are not in your favour. Take your time and don't just marry because you think you have to be married for whatever reason.
Loretta78 · 46-50, F
Yeah, exactly this happens to me too. And so sadly I can't give you any advice. It just seems that for some people loneliness is their destiny. 😞

But you are still young, and so I hope that things still will change for you. 🍀
Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M
But just as you're going down an angelic girl in a houseboat grabs you, performs mouth to mouth resusitation and takes you with her. Then the lions get loose and eat everyone on the ark.
Nanori · F
Find new friends
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SW-User
@Nanori Well it would appear I've hit the jackpot. Please clip my nails and massage my feet while you're at it
Nanori · F
@SW-User
Miram · 31-35, F
Don't get married. It's a trap.
InvictusIndigo · 22-25, M
@Miram Then what do I do? Just date forever or be single forever?
Miram · 31-35, F
@InvictusIndigo Find your own path to joy and self fulfillment. People aren't getaway to happiness.

Nothing wrong with being single or dating forever as long , as your heart is not in pieces and you're not using people to fix that

Whether for validation , for hatred towards the gender which did deny you(incels and misandrists), for reflecting what you think is the norm..

You need be you not someone else, not an animal in the ark..eh, be the whole ark if you have to taking others to safety if your heart reflect that role.

Why, why does it have be like everyone else?
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
You’re 22-25. I don’t believe most of the people in your age group are married. Not sure what your rush is
InvictusIndigo · 22-25, M
@Jenny1234 Easier said than done 😅🙃
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
@InvictusIndigo not really
InvictusIndigo · 22-25, M
@Jenny1234 How's that??
You are way too young to be worried about marriage. Meet some girls and get a healthy rotation going. Then you can settle on one.
smiler2012 · 56-60
😆 a strange way to make a point but can understand where you are coming from with it [invictus] ]
Budwick · 70-79, M
Don't settle.
Don't panic.
Noah - Cute analogy -
learn to swim.
jackjjackson · 61-69, M
Go to the SPCA and pick out a nice dog. At some point your partner will come along the dog might help lure such a partner in. @Budwick
SW-User
I don't know many people my age who are married lol.
SW-User
Yeah but I bet none of them are happy.

 
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