Your friend is pregnant.

I'd find out what she wants and then support her wishes. She's my friend and it's not about me.

If this friend truly knows me, there will already be the thought I don't agree with abortion and won't help anyone to have an abortion, especially if the father doesn't even know.
So... probably, if the friend is confiding in me it's because she really doesn't want an abortion... because I already stated friends of mine know I don't agree with abortions and won't help anyone get an abortion.

To be clear, you can support a friend and still try to have a different outcome. Supporting a friend doesn't have to mean getting the abortion done. Just how I see it.

Id be there for her. If she needed a ride,Id take her there. No stress.

Convince her to tell and keep the baby.

{@theunderdogofny] 🤔 she has rather put you in a difficult position . she may wanted to get it of her chest and burdened you with her problem . but at the end of the day you know about it and what she inntends to do . this really is between her andf her mutual friend and not really involves you what so ever the outcome

Support the (pregnant) friend I guess though I wouldn't feel comfortable keeping things from the other friend but oh well

That's hard. I wouldn't want to get in the middle but might feel like I owe both friends my loyalty.

I just feel like this is so wrong for her to abort the baby and the father know nothing.

I respect my friend’s wishes even though I disagree with her plan

Id tell her she should keep the baby. But it's up to her what she does.

Me?...stop talking to both of them. I hate being in the middle of things, I can't take the stress. I guess that counts as do nothing, I'll vote that.

Not my decision to make

UHM, obviously support her decision.

I’d be pissed she told me anything cause I would tell the other friend she wants to kill the baby.

Stay out of the muck.

That’s quite a thing to trust with someone. A very big decision for them and a secret to keep. I’d support them because they obviously are seeking and need it. I hope if this has happened in your life the woman is okay.