Do you ever get the feeling you're putting too much effort

@Fairydust If it carries on too much longer I think I'm going to have to explain to them how I feel about it

@AliceNoctem or cut them off if they don’t see it.

@AliceNoctem Some seem (my relatives) to be oblivious to what they are doing .

@AliceNoctemYes it sucks.. I've had 2 serious relationships and not one of those have ever affected my friendships, so i feel a little pissed off when a friend acts like no one else exists just because shes apparently met the one 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

@LadyJ I think in my situation it's something to do with the new bf. I've always had this weird suspicion that he doesn't like me and I don't know why? Maybe a bit jealous of our close friendship?
Anyway I wouldn't be surprised if they're whispering things in our friends ears about us to try and stir shit up or distance is so they can have them all to themselves

@AliceNoctem Yes this could be the case..my friends new bf comes across quite controlling and I'm quite fiery so i think he's wary of me but still thats no excuse to change towards people

@AliceNoctem I'm sorry because I know that game all too well myself... [image deleted]
I don't allow many people in, and just recently made a bad judgement call in regards to someone's sincerity

@MoonlightLullaby it really sucks, especially when you were at one point inseparable. I might back off myself and see whether he reaches out or let's me go

@AliceNoctem I think that's in your best interests, although very disheartening you have to.😕

@Piper it's a shame people you were once the absolute closest to can just drift away

@AliceNoctem Yes. There has always been a sadness and hurt about it, for me anyway, when it was someone I felt was a close friend. One time, even though I'd been wondering if I ought to think of the person as a close "friend" anymore.

@ASLAN 🤣🤣🤣

@anoderod55 this is a friend I've known for years, but recently they're just expecting me to go out of my way to organize and arrange things all the time.
Plus I always have to travel over an hour to visit whereas they don't do the same for me

@AliceNoctem That is sad . Mine has been basically on internet . I've been told i have know friends . lol And i don't believe i do .

Your friend needs to be talked to . They are taking advantage of you . I have relatives that do that . Wishing you luck in your situation . 👍

@anoderod55 thank you ☺️

@ButterRobot 🤣🤣🤣 I feel ya, I usually do the same in less important friendships

@SomebodyThatYouUsedToKnow they've still got my back 100% and I know that, I guess I just feel taken for granted recently which kinda sucks

@ianon I definitely would if it was a relationship, usually means you're not the only person in the picture