Asking
Only logged in members can reply and interact with the post.
Join SimilarWorlds for FREE »

Do you ever get the feeling you're putting too much effort

Into a friendship where it's not reciprocated?
This page is a permanent link to the reply below and its nested replies. See all post replies »
LadyJ · F
Yes.. I've just backed off from a 25 year friendship because she's met a new guy and thinks this is a good reason for her to act like a dick towards me and a few others in her life...so I've backed off
AliceNoctem · 31-35, F
@LadyJ Funny you should say that it's a similar situation with me where things have been going downhill since they got with their new partner a couple of years back 😞
LadyJ · F
@AliceNoctemYes it sucks.. I've had 2 serious relationships and not one of those have ever affected my friendships, so i feel a little pissed off when a friend acts like no one else exists just because shes apparently met the one 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
AliceNoctem · 31-35, F
@LadyJ I think in my situation it's something to do with the new bf. I've always had this weird suspicion that he doesn't like me and I don't know why? Maybe a bit jealous of our close friendship?
Anyway I wouldn't be surprised if they're whispering things in our friends ears about us to try and stir shit up or distance is so they can have them all to themselves
LadyJ · F
@AliceNoctem Yes this could be the case..my friends new bf comes across quite controlling and I'm quite fiery so i think he's wary of me but still thats no excuse to change towards people