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Are you unable to comprehend that you grew up? And if yes, are you the youngest in your family?

Sometimes I look at my life and I get scared especially if I am making major decisions.. Maybe because I lived most of my life unable to make decisions or maybe because I am the youngest in the family and for the longest time I was treated as young even after I grew up and was carrying the responsibility of the house 🥔🤷🏾‍♀️
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I am now the oldest in my family…..
mooncrest02 · 31-35, F
A lil, Im 2nd youngest, my lil brother is still at home and Im being taken cared of by my partner. Like I do take care of my kids but i still feel like i couldnt do it independently. I also went through childhood abuse so i thought that was a factor, maybe both.
BittersweetPotato · 31-35, F
@mooncrest02 I get that feeling often now. That i need support.. But I am not getting. Been on my own for so long, doing it all alone.
mooncrest02 · 31-35, F
@BittersweetPotato yea it can be hard to ask for support of any kind but you should try to at least reach out for emotional support from a friend or family.. makes a big difference to at least be a lil seen and validated.❤️
Yep, my mind is stuck in my early twenties when I think about future plans or my place in society.
BittersweetPotato · 31-35, F
@NerdyPotato Same!!! Maybe it is a potato thing.
BlueVeins · 26-30
I don't feel all that grown up, but I'm a middle child.
Yes... I'm still stuck in childhood. It's strange to think that life moved on from where my head is stuck.

No, I'm not the youngest
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
Yes, but then I remind myself of all the middle-aged men who wear diapers and realize I'm not that bad.
caccoon · 36-40
@SkeetSkeet holy f 🤣🤣🤣
Captainjackass · 31-35, M
I still don’t feel like an adult and Im in my 30s. Probably because I sacrificed all my 20s being miserable and taking care of others who couldn’t be adults.
basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M
I still think I'm in my twenties.
Until the sciatica pain strikes.
I’m the oldest child.
SW-User
NinaTina · 31-35, F
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I am the oldest and have been taking care of everyone since I was a child. It would be nice if someone would take care of me sometimes.

I am sorry for how you have been treated 🩷.
MethDozer · M
I'm the first born of the generation in my family and easily the least adult in a lot of ways. Not all of them, but most of them.

 
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