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How easy is it for you to forgive people ?

For me it depends .
Patientlywaiting · 46-50, F
Forgiving is not the same as forgetting. We can forgive but that doesn't mean we have to forget and allow people to keep hurting us over and over.
SW-User
It definitely depends for me as well. Like I can intellectualize why a person did a certain thing, and in the moment I can feel clarity or a sense of understanding for them. But I also find that I still need to sit with those intense feelings for a while and process it until it lessens over time, allowing me to let it go
SW-User
@SW-User Understandable.
In most cases i will give then a 2nd chance but if they blow it then i never want to see them again
Ferric67 · M
I have a short memory and can forgive easily

regaining my trust is a different story
Lilymoon · F
I have a hard time with it
XDHyperGirlXD1 · 31-35, F
@Lilymoon i know you still haven't forgiven me for eating the last butter tart 🙄
Lilymoon · F
@XDHyperGirlXD1 Nevah! 😤
XDHyperGirlXD1 · 31-35, F
@Lilymoon get over it already 🙄
SW-User
It really depends for me too, but I’m a pretty forgiving person.
SW-User
I would say I’m a forgiving person, especially if they show remorse
I’m like a goldfish. I don’t really hold grudges
It depends on [b][big][u]who they[/u][/big][/b] are and what [big][u][b]was said or done![/b][/u][/big]
WhatLifeIsFor · 41-45, M
difficult for me
Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
olderuncle944 · 70-79, M
Before it was easy to for give now its takes a lot motr time its not i dont forgive i just close them out of my life .
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I try hard but if you hurt me then I am going to be so distant
Renaci · 36-40
I only forgive so it stops hurting me.

 
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