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It definitely depends for me as well. Like I can intellectualize why a person did a certain thing, and in the moment I can feel clarity or a sense of understanding for them. But I also find that I still need to sit with those intense feelings for a while and process it until it lessens over time, allowing me to let it go

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@SW-User Understandable.