You know what really offends me?

People who put salt, pepper and condiments on something I cooked before tasting it.

Are you saying my cooking is so bad you can't even taste it before you doctor it up?!

Rude!

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Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

So I understand how that would feel. I've had someone do that to me.
My partner doesn't like sauce or anything and only likes the gravy the meat is cooked in but he doesn't thicken it up so It tends to just be chicken juice for gravy.
I got bored of that so I added tomato ketchup to my plate simply because Is always the same flavours and I just need gravy.
He got so upset with me... But I wanted more than just oil.

FoxyQueen · 51-55, F

@Mellowgirl if someone isn't making something you like, then they need to take you into consideration. If I knew the other person liked things one way and I liked it the other, I'd do both. Like, watery gravy for me, and thickened gravy for you. Takes very little time to whip up and makes your dining experience better!

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@FoxyQueen I think you are a hospitable person. He likes to think he is but there are many times where's it's proven that he isn't. Well at least where I'm concerned.
He used to only cook the meals the people in his home could eat, no creamy pasta no lamb. Consequently he was eating the same meals and very dissatisfied with his diet. When he met me I was a bit more open minded so we broadened his horizon. When I moved in he reverted back to his old ways only cooking what they'd eat or if I cooked something different than they'd eat , tell them they had to sort themselves out. But the foods he cooked he didn't budge. It came as is.

FoxyQueen · 51-55, F

@Mellowgirl That's when I'll just cook for myself and he can fend for himself. Life is too short to eat food you don't like.