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Matt85 · 36-40, M
the problem is, the thankyou may seem like progress when it's the opposite
PoetryNEmotion · F
@Matt85 I think one has to acknowledge the gesture. Thank you doesn't mean I will have sex with you.
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SW-User
I'll thank them and chat, but I don't feel obligated to them.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
If a person asks to buy me a drink and I have the opportunity to refuse, then I would say I would owe them the courtesy of talking with them if I accept.
On the other hand, if the drink just appears and the bartender points out who bought it, I don't think I owe them anything. In a bar, a "free" drink is usually an attempt to manipulate someone. (Not necessarily sexually. I have had windbags buy me drinks just so they can keep me there and keep talking and talking to me! lol)
On the other hand, if the drink just appears and the bartender points out who bought it, I don't think I owe them anything. In a bar, a "free" drink is usually an attempt to manipulate someone. (Not necessarily sexually. I have had windbags buy me drinks just so they can keep me there and keep talking and talking to me! lol)
calicuz · 56-60, M
If a woman buys you a drink, it means you're "in like Flint." 😎
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
If a random person was to buy me a drink I'd politely decline in case it was spiked/drugged in some way.
Like you I am not a bar person and have never been to bars/clubs/pubs with the express aim of finding women to 'pick up' for ons/nsa sexual encounters.
Like you I am not a bar person and have never been to bars/clubs/pubs with the express aim of finding women to 'pick up' for ons/nsa sexual encounters.
NewBeginnings7790 · 41-45, F
No one is obligated to do anything just because someone bought them a drink or even any other gift.
A thank you will do, or you could even politely say thank you for the offer, but no thanks.
A thank you will do, or you could even politely say thank you for the offer, but no thanks.
Jonjdw · 46-50, M
@NewBeginnings7790 ok. But what if they are across the bar and the bartender says from that person and there it is. Then what.
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SW-User
I have always been the one buying and it has always ended up in conversation. But if they want more than that, I am good to walk away
rachelsj · 22-25, F
Not necessarily but at least thank him for the drink
PoetryNEmotion · F
No. You are not obligated. Just signal or say thank you.
FreestyleArt · 31-35, M
if they bride, no
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