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If someone buys you a drink

I’m not a bar person never was. But if someone buys you a drink. I'm sure you must thank them at least. Does it mean you should go and talk to them
Matt85 · 36-40, M
the problem is, the thankyou may seem like progress when it's the opposite
@Matt85 I think one has to acknowledge the gesture. Thank you doesn't mean I will have sex with you.
SW-User
I'll thank them and chat, but I don't feel obligated to them.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
If a person asks to buy me a drink and I have the opportunity to refuse, then I would say I would owe them the courtesy of talking with them if I accept.

On the other hand, if the drink just appears and the bartender points out who bought it, I don't think I owe them anything. In a bar, a "free" drink is usually an attempt to manipulate someone. (Not necessarily sexually. I have had windbags buy me drinks just so they can keep me there and keep talking and talking to me! lol)
calicuz · 56-60, M
If a woman buys you a drink, it means you're "in like Flint." 😎
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
If a random person was to buy me a drink I'd politely decline in case it was spiked/drugged in some way.

Like you I am not a bar person and have never been to bars/clubs/pubs with the express aim of finding women to 'pick up' for ons/nsa sexual encounters.
NewBeginnings7790 · 41-45, F
No one is obligated to do anything just because someone bought them a drink or even any other gift.

A thank you will do, or you could even politely say thank you for the offer, but no thanks.
Jonjdw · 46-50, M
@NewBeginnings7790 ok. But what if they are across the bar and the bartender says from that person and there it is. Then what.
SW-User
I have always been the one buying and it has always ended up in conversation. But if they want more than that, I am good to walk away
rachelsj · 22-25, F
Not necessarily but at least thank him for the drink
No. You are not obligated. Just signal or say thank you.
FreestyleArt · 31-35, M
if they bride, no
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