That situation is not necessarily always the case but it does certainly happen. I know first hand how frustrating it is.
This situation has been recently happening to me too. However; no matter how hard things get I presently think that I must see this as an opportunity to learn and grow. I think this perspective or attitude is much more positive. It can be often times easier said than done to have this attitude but is the better choice in my opinion. Therefore; we must keep on trying to think this way because if done effectively it can lead to very positive emotions and thought patterns.