I can’t decide which girl t0 be?

I really want to be this type of girl, because I think it’s more godly too and it’s just comforting.

But I’m also this type of wild bohemian type of girl.

I can’t decide which to be.

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IM5688 · 61-69, M

You can be both. Why would you choose just one?
Your style choices and actions reflect who you are and there's nothing wrong with that.
And those who respect you, are your true friends, etc., will love, respect and accept you either way.
I know I would.

sirenofthesea · F

Because being wild and passionate and bohemian isn’t very Christian, whereas the first one is @IM5688

Starcrossed · 41-45, F

@sirenofthesea you don't want to be a stereotype anyway, be both. Find a fellowship that is inclusive of those who are wild and passionate.

IM5688 · 61-69, M

@sirenofthesea Why is being bohemian un-Christian like?
You can still have your Christian beliefs and still be free to express yourself, be creative, be stylish, adhere to Christian values, etc.

IM5688 · 61-69, M

@sirenofthesea It depends on on what your version of wild is. You can still be wild in some ways and still keep your Christian values and beliefs.

RubiesandButterflies · 51-55, F

@IM5688 I agree I dress modestly and my style is very hippie bohemian.

IM5688 · 61-69, M

@RubiesandButterflies Nothing wrong with that at all.