i cant really get inside of his head. he obviously thinks very highly of you though, otherwise, he wouldnt continue to hang around. i have had women in the past that i thought of just as friends, but, werent attracted to in the romantic way. it happens. at worst, you have a lifelong friend. one question though........ since you have known him, how often does he go out with other women ??
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CloudAngel80 · 41-45, F
@YourMomsSecretCrush could be..
ninalanyon · 61-69, T
@CloudAngel80 So what do you talk about? Do you both carefully tiptoe around any topics to do with sex or relationships? Perhaps it is time to ask him straight out how he feels and tell him how you feel.
CloudAngel80 · 41-45, F
@ninalanyon we only talk about his dog, his kids, his ex wife..and once in a while he askes about my day
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dale74 · M
Tell him you love him and want a serious relationship with him and only him.
I had a friend one time and she made the mistake as soon she never wanted to get married again and she didn't trust men. So I wouldn't ask her up I kept it nothing but friendship even when she changed her mind and wanted more because she never told me she wanted more. Men do not read between the lines if you like him you better tell him you should have told him a long time ago obviously. In today's culture if a man who is a good man makes the first move he's labeled misogynist this has all been created because of women's lib. If a man just simply makes a nice compliment such as I like the way you got your hair fixed or that's a really cool outfit if he says this even though a large percentage of women would enjoy it you have that 5% who would turn him into HR now this isn't at work but good men have gotten to where they apply the standard to everywhere because the last thing a man wants to be accused of is sexual harassment.
I had a friend one time and she made the mistake as soon she never wanted to get married again and she didn't trust men. So I wouldn't ask her up I kept it nothing but friendship even when she changed her mind and wanted more because she never told me she wanted more. Men do not read between the lines if you like him you better tell him you should have told him a long time ago obviously. In today's culture if a man who is a good man makes the first move he's labeled misogynist this has all been created because of women's lib. If a man just simply makes a nice compliment such as I like the way you got your hair fixed or that's a really cool outfit if he says this even though a large percentage of women would enjoy it you have that 5% who would turn him into HR now this isn't at work but good men have gotten to where they apply the standard to everywhere because the last thing a man wants to be accused of is sexual harassment.
twiigss · M
@dale74 THANK YOU! This is why I will not approach a woman and ask her out. I don't need to be accused of sexual harassment and lose my job because I was interested in a date.
So I will be super nice, but if you are interested for a date as a woman, then you have to approach and ask me because I'm not losing my job over it.
And yes it has happened before with other people.
So I will be super nice, but if you are interested for a date as a woman, then you have to approach and ask me because I'm not losing my job over it.
And yes it has happened before with other people.
Barefooter25 · 46-50, M
I have a good friend who's exactly the same way. I have known her for over 25 years. We started out as b/f/g/f but today I consider her one of my closest friends. We basically chat everyday.
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littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M
There are a alot of things I can say. But keep it short you guys are good friends but if he doesn't have feelings for you. You should settle to level of friendship where you guys should not be saying those 3 words.
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Kuronekko · 41-45, F
Idk, you can't make someone see you like that if they don't. Have either of you had romantic partners since being friends?
CloudAngel80 · 41-45, F
@Kuronekko nope..
JSmith75 · 46-50, M
Just be careful you don't want to lose his friendship