What are you sad about? I want to have a baby but can't find a man that's “all together in the head” ☹️
I mean I'm not the smartest person but men that are smarter than me don't want anything to do with me😞
36-40, F
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That's a hard place to be in.
First you have to date long enough to figure that you are both compatible and well adjusted enough to raise kids. Then you have to actually try to have kids and once they're here you have to try raising them and balance work, which could be an issue.
Also men in their thirties are usually looking at women in their twenties so you might have to look at men in their forties and fifties. However men that age likely already have kids and don't want anymore.
I don't know where you are from but more and more American men are increasingly less likely to settle down. Many good men are married, some have taken themselves off the market completely (a growing trend of men preferring their friends and games over women and relationships), and those that remain are either unappealing to women altogether or f-boys that have no intentions of settling down.
It's a lot to think about.
First you have to date long enough to figure that you are both compatible and well adjusted enough to raise kids. Then you have to actually try to have kids and once they're here you have to try raising them and balance work, which could be an issue.
Also men in their thirties are usually looking at women in their twenties so you might have to look at men in their forties and fifties. However men that age likely already have kids and don't want anymore.
I don't know where you are from but more and more American men are increasingly less likely to settle down. Many good men are married, some have taken themselves off the market completely (a growing trend of men preferring their friends and games over women and relationships), and those that remain are either unappealing to women altogether or f-boys that have no intentions of settling down.
It's a lot to think about.