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Can a single parent truly provide everything a child needs, or is something always missing?

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kimmy159 · F
Let me put it differently: the more people care about the child, the more the child will learn and get different perspectives and influences.
They will have several examples to base their own values on or know exactly what they don’t want.
There is always something missing or mistakes along the way with anyone or no matter how many people there are too.
No matter how much you try or do your best, you can’t replace several people.
Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
Wow. Tough question to answer honestly.
I can say I bet there are a lot of single moms getting ready to block my ass in a minute.
Also this is strictly my opinion from what I have seen in my life and have decided must be true.

One parent can't do it all.
In order for kids to develop socially and emotionally they need both a feminine and masculine entity in their environment.
Boys marry woman that have the good qualities of their mother.
Mom sets the bar, most often, of what is expected in a mate.
For boys, dad is their template of what to strive to be better than. Not out of spite but rather an immense amount of respect. They want to make dad proud of them.
If their isn't some consistent form of surrogacy in either role there is going to be to much of one influence and therefore causing imbalance.

I had a friend. Close friend, who grew up with literally no regular male influence. He was very feminine. Not gay just feminine. He had a hard go of it with the shop type ruff and tumble guys.
Most situations he was singled out and picked on.
He hunted and fished but just didn't have any masculine traits.

Also, another close friend grew up with no mom at home. This caused way to much male thinking, with two brothers, and he just got a divorce because he was way to alpha with his wife way to often.
Just his tone and the way he would communicate with her like she was one of the boys.

So this is the short version.
Cigarguy101 · 41-45, M
What is missing is a cold mother who didn't connect with or love her children. She has abandoned them and wasn't attempted to talk to them in 2 years. So now I have to help them deal with that along with trying to raise them without a mother in their life
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
In my case, what's missing is their narcissistic, controlling father. I've done my best with what I have and I believe that we are all better off without him.
Two good parents are ideal, but a good single parent is better than two parents in a household with constant conflict.

But @kimmy159 said it best, imo:

the more people care about the child, the more the child will learn and get different perspectives and influences.
smiler2012 · 61-69
@Renkon 🤔as a no parent i still think this rather a difficult thing to achieve you try your best naturally to give your kids the best
Bleak · 36-40, F
To be very honest, there is something always missing.
YoMomma ·
Something is always missing but one good parent is better than any number of bad ones
Renkon · M
@YoMomma Many people’s experiences will testify to this fact..
nedkelly · 61-69, M
No, go do some research on the black youths of America, doing more crime as being raised by a single mother, 80% are single mothers trying to do their best

 
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