My best friend is pregnant - why am I sad?!

Just because family lives close doesn't mean they will help or support. In my experience the parents will have no choice but to carry the load either way, if other family members who you thought would help doesn't assist or support you as you thought they would. Things don't always work out the way one thinks or dreams it will. Having a child is a full time job, you have to be financially, mentally, emotionally, physically ready. Both parents will have to make many sacrifices, so both needs to be ready, its a lifelong commitment. It is understandable to feel sad when you see someone else taking that next step and it's something you want badly, it doesn't make you a bad person, you are happy for your friends but it is something you long to have as well. I do hope it works out for you and you are blessed with as many children as you want. All the best! :)

Wow,you guys have some issues. Your not on the same page.
As for "timing". There is never the "right" time or enough money.
Are you married? Start there. Fix your issue and get on same page.

The only way is to be happy for your best friends and focus on what you want for your own future including children.
One point though...."they" are not pregnant.It is just her.

Well you say partner why not get married chances of you staying together after a baby when you have not formally committed to each other is low. As for a child they are not a toy. They take lots of time energy and money. On the bright side they are worth it all. Maybe you and your partner don't want the same in life.

lol, looking after a baby isn't that hard

I focus on other things that make me happy. That helps a little. But yeah, it sucks. Idk.

Good luck!

You'll start a family when the both of you are ready.

Do u do like online classes or go to the college?

It’s a change, things are moving forward with your friends and they are having a family which you want too.

It’s not a good reason to get started on your own family when it doesn’t make sense yet. Your time will come.

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