I am a divorced NCP of three kids. My ex gets a huge CS check each month of 3k.

I am a divorced NCP of three kids. I am only allowed by the court to see them every other weekend. My ex gets a huge CS check each month of 3k. Yet, my daughter each month says things like "Dad its your turn to get me new shoes." That always makes me so angry because she is getting so much money. Lately, I thought about it and said to her, "If I get you new shoes they are going to stay at my apartment for when you come to visit."

How do other NCP's handle this?

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MrSmooTh · 31-35, M

And women want to march on Washington saying they're oppressed...

SW-User

They need to keep their ass at home!

ShadowSteel · M

Their needs to be a movement for men's rights. Their should be 50/50 parenting time for the kids for whats best with the kids not what is best to maximize child support.

MrSmooTh · 31-35, M

@AmazingPoet: Yep I saw an interesting development on one of those judge shows. There was this guy with a bad attitude, and the judge called him out for acting like a woman and doing woman like mannerisms. And it dawned on me that this is the result of custody being granted to mothers.