How do I deal with a mentally ill family member without being dragged down myself?

How do I keep myself happy and positive when I have to deal with emotional blackmail, manipulation, lying, judgment, criticism and a general attitude of negativity on a daily basis?
Sometimes it gets overwhelming and I feel mentally exhausted.
I know this person is mentally ill and abandoning them is not an option.
P.S. It's not my spouse! 😜

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Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M

If you are a carer for this person then you need assistance.
If their behaviour is so bad it's either a clinical issue or they are well aware of what they're doing and it's a form of manipulation.
In either case i suspect Respite care is of the urgency and a discussion with a social worker as to future long term care plans and how to implement them is long overdue !
Nobody likes to admit defeat. Especially when caring for one you love. But it does neither of you any good if you just continue the same cycle again and again, with you feeling like you could strangle that person !