I had a fight with my mom.

I told her something mean, that I should've said and that I really regret. But I said sorry 50 afterwards.
She doesn't wanna forgive me. She told me not to call her mom anymore and not to calculate her.
She also forbid me from eating in her company or being in the same room as her.
I know what I said was bad, and I feel really guilty now.
And...
I don't really know why I'm writing this. I just feel bad for her, and guilty, and I'm crying, and I want my mom back...

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hami1091 · 41-45, F

We all especially when we are teenagers say things to our moms we don't mean or shouldn't have said or make us feel guilty, I did it, my kids do it, as has every other human being growing up, sometimes our big mouths got us into trouble, or our mom's got it and understood we were angry, hurt, upset, etc. Sometimes they even went away and cried or were unable to hide their tears from us, but the majority of our moms did NOT act like your mom. If anyone should be feeling guilty it is her, who does that, and tells their own child not to call them mom. I can't think of anything horrible enough that would make me say something like that to my child regardless of what they said to me. I'm sorry you are going through this, and I hope whatever caused the problem gets sorted out and things get better for you. 🤗

ArtieKat · M

@Hami1091: Well said, Hami - good to hear the view of a sensible mother and daughter.

ArtieKat · M

Whatever it was that you said, I think your mother is acting more as petulant teenager than you. Don't feel guilty - it's up to your mother to apologise for disowning you.

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ArtieKat · M

@MartinTheFirst: Precisely how old are you, Martin? I think a parent who refuses to be in the same room as their child has abrogated all parental responsibility -NO MATTER WHAT THE CHILD SAID.

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

@ArtieKat: People like you shouldnt be allowed to be parents tbh.

ArtieKat · M

@MartinTheFirst: Just answer the question: how old are you?

curiosi · 61-69, F

Sounds like you hit a real tender spot. Give her time to lick her wounds.

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

It'll take some time to recover from... I've been through that as well, remember your mother is not some super woman. She won't tolerate anything said to her.

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