I had a fight with my mom.

I told her something mean, that I should've said and that I really regret. But I said sorry 50 afterwards.
She doesn't wanna forgive me. She told me not to call her mom anymore and not to calculate her.
She also forbid me from eating in her company or being in the same room as her.
I know what I said was bad, and I feel really guilty now.
And...
I don't really know why I'm writing this. I just feel bad for her, and guilty, and I'm crying, and I want my mom back...

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hami1091 · 41-45, F

We all especially when we are teenagers say things to our moms we don't mean or shouldn't have said or make us feel guilty, I did it, my kids do it, as has every other human being growing up, sometimes our big mouths got us into trouble, or our mom's got it and understood we were angry, hurt, upset, etc. Sometimes they even went away and cried or were unable to hide their tears from us, but the majority of our moms did NOT act like your mom. If anyone should be feeling guilty it is her, who does that, and tells their own child not to call them mom. I can't think of anything horrible enough that would make me say something like that to my child regardless of what they said to me. I'm sorry you are going through this, and I hope whatever caused the problem gets sorted out and things get better for you. 🤗

ArtieKat · M

@Hami1091: Well said, Hami - good to hear the view of a sensible mother and daughter.