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Has your parent ever told you that you were a disappointment to them? How did it end in the long run? Did you prove them wrong?

My mom just said my sister and I have both been disappointments and we didnt do well enough in life compared to others' achievements and her expectations inspite of all the support my parents gave me through the years.
I flatly disagreed with her and told her I have always worked for what I wanted, and even though I am currently in a low phase career wise, I am working to achieve my goal, so not to talk down on me. She didnt reply. Even so, it has remained in the back of my head ever since.
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Carla · 61-69, F
Well, you are an adult. The only person you a required to please, is yourself.
Fortunately, my mother taught me this.
@Carla You gotta please those who succeed you, not yourself. Life isn't a self centered phenomena, if it was, Darwin wouldn't have a theory.
Carla · 61-69, F
@Dignaga no. There is nothing self centered about it. I cannot please others while being miserable. Even uncomfortable.
Heretodaygonetomorrow · 26-30, F
@Carla i feel we cannot live our lives with the purpose of pleasing someone else. They always find some reason to complain or be discontent and that messes up our drive. Its better to just try your best everyday and try to please God (if you believe) and yourself. God is a lot more kind towards your struggles than your close ones who end up being judgemental