How does this work...
I have a nine month old baby girl and I'm trying to work this whole co parent thing with her dad this is his first baby and all he like to do is make arguments out of anything.
But one thing I'm having difficulty getting round is her saying to everyone I'm neglecting her because she not crawling or sitting I've told him babies development at different times she's doing fine but nope he's not happy with this. He's also saying I don't change her clothes which she is change one maybe twice a day not including after her bath.
So last week Tuesday he has his visitation which is 3 hours and he wants to take her shopping for some clothes bear in mind that day was so hot. I pick her up at 2pm before collecting my other 2 kids and he has her dressed in new clothes and it's a tracksuit a thick tracksuit and he's put socks on her she is wrapped in a blanket with her pram snuggly on top of that. The other two pairs of clothes are pj's thick ones too.
When I tell you my baby was sweating and red I stripped her down right there and put the dress I had spare in her bag.
Now for a guy who claims to have done 3 paid online courses on how to look after a baby and has a big family.
Am I over reacting to say he's a bloody idiot who doesn't care about his baby only for what he wants like really.
When I got her home she drank so much but she is fine.
Anytime I try give him a bit advice to help him I'm a manipulative person I'm a narcissist and mentally controling. I just want what's best for my daughter and this just isn't it at all he's been seeing her 6 months now
But one thing I'm having difficulty getting round is her saying to everyone I'm neglecting her because she not crawling or sitting I've told him babies development at different times she's doing fine but nope he's not happy with this. He's also saying I don't change her clothes which she is change one maybe twice a day not including after her bath.
So last week Tuesday he has his visitation which is 3 hours and he wants to take her shopping for some clothes bear in mind that day was so hot. I pick her up at 2pm before collecting my other 2 kids and he has her dressed in new clothes and it's a tracksuit a thick tracksuit and he's put socks on her she is wrapped in a blanket with her pram snuggly on top of that. The other two pairs of clothes are pj's thick ones too.
When I tell you my baby was sweating and red I stripped her down right there and put the dress I had spare in her bag.
Now for a guy who claims to have done 3 paid online courses on how to look after a baby and has a big family.
Am I over reacting to say he's a bloody idiot who doesn't care about his baby only for what he wants like really.
When I got her home she drank so much but she is fine.
Anytime I try give him a bit advice to help him I'm a manipulative person I'm a narcissist and mentally controling. I just want what's best for my daughter and this just isn't it at all he's been seeing her 6 months now
