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Teenage logic

When we moved into our new home I bought matching desks and chairs for my daughter and me to go in our very own home office. I am quite sure that I have never seen her use hers once. Homework is done on her bed, on the sofa, sitting on the floor . . even when we are in the office at the same time, she will be sitting on the floor rather than on her chair.

This afternoon her geography assignment appears to have got stuck to the sheepskin rug 🐑 When I ask for an explanation she just shrugs 🤷‍♀️ Occupational hazard of having to do homework, I guess 😐
Scribbles · 36-40, F Best Comment
That's very heartwarming and sweet of you to try to make her comfortable and included in your office space by getting her a desk also to do her work at just like for yourself. I wouldn't be surprised if you let her pick out exactly what she wanted too!

Too bad kids are so hard to predict. Even she might not have been able to predict that she wouldn't be sitting there doing her homework either.🤷🏻‍♀️ Maybe she'll still want to use it in a few years either for homework or workspace for something else.

Silver lining: At least she's doing her homework :)

If I had a proper desk and chair at home, it would go more unused then not.
I have always preferred floor sitting over chairs my whole life out of comfort and habit.

Even as an adult, I like my desk and chair at work. And feel comfortable sitting there.

But at home, no thank you
I'll sit on chairs and couches at other people's houses but at home...nope. I like the floor best. For years my sofa in my apartment was mostly used by roommates and guests.

My preferred "working on homework" position was lying on the floor or bed or sitting on the floor with. Back against a wall or piece of furniture. When I was a kid, I preferred to be either wherever people commonly were (so I could keep an eye on everyone and know what was going on) or as far away as I could get.

For 4 years or so, I often used a lap desk. My grandmother (during a short visit) once showed my little brother and I how to make a lapdesk out of an old wooden board, an old shirt , some hot glue, and a big bag of rice dumped in the shirt as the cushion under it. This was the solution to the problem of the mysterious small ink spot on the carpet.

Perhaps your daughter might like a lap desk, if she likes to do homework in multiple places?
More likely than not, you're stuck with her doing her homework however and wherever. Just have to keep an eye out to prevent any problems as best you can that might happen from using non typical spaces as a workspace. Teenagers are at least as accidently destructive as young kids if not more, I imagine.
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
@Scribbles Yes! The main thing is that she actually does her homework, without too much nagging from me. How she does it is not so important.

During her first weekend with us back in January she was so hyped up that I couldn't get her to focus at all on the work she needed to do for school. Until I was driving her back to the childrens home at 4pm on Sunday afternoon and she started to get stressed about it. So we diverted to my workplace and she was good as gold sitting at my desk with her assignments.

I just had this fanciful idea that we could be work buddies at home 😌

Like you, she mainly wants to be where other people are. It's not uncommon for us to suddenly be aware of her sitting on the carpet in our bedroom, which can be a trifle awkward at times! 😅

I need a proper desk and all my pens in the right place!

joe438 · 61-69, M
They also sit on chairs with their backs on the seat and their legs up on the seat back.

You asked for an explanation for a teen's behavior? Wow, you're bold.
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
@joe438 Yes, we have novelty positions as well. If I tried sitting like that I would probably need assistance from the fire brigade to get up again 🙄
joe438 · 61-69, M
@SunshineGirl I see students in the lounges at college in positions that make my back ache just looking at them. The legs-over-the-back is pretty common.
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
Hilarious!

Similar story! Reminds me of when I bought matching desks and chairs from ikea for my 3 boys to do their homework. Not one of them ever used their desk for homework. Decoration only
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
@Jenny1234 When I was at boarding school I shared a desk with the girl in my room. We had one-and-a-half drawers each! 😅

I just thought she'd like her own desk 🙂
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SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
@jshm2 It's company she wants most of all. Doesn't like being on her own, even when she is studying, so she goes where people are.
RedBaron · M
Wait until she goes to college and discovers the beanbag. 🤣
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
@RedBaron Beanbags are great! 😊
RedBaron · M
@SunshineGirl Especially when you’re young and have an easy time getting up off the floor, lol.
ninalanyon · 61-69, T
Are you surprised? I'm nearly twice as old as you but I still remember being a teenager, I'm sure you do too!
@ninalanyon I mean the names of the items, sorry, I should have clarified.
ninalanyon · 61-69, T
@NativePortlander1970 But Swedish is quite a rounded sort of speech, at least it feels that way to me. Less distinct than Norwegian I think, but that might be because I have much less practice with Swedish, especially since I retired and have fewer occasions to speak with Swedes.

But I suppose you are actually referring to the printed names of things, lots of Ts and Ks.
@ninalanyon It still sounds hard to western ears.
MommyLucy · 36-40, F
[b] Awwwwww! 💖💖💖 [/b] [c=003BB2] Take a photo of her homework stuck to the sheepskin rug incase her geography teacher doesn't believe her! 🤗🤗🤗 Doing homework elsewhere instead of a chair sounds awesome as I did that kind of thing too when I did my homework! 😁😁😁 [/c]
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
@MommyLucy We got her exercise book unstuck, but it was quite woolly! 🐑
ArtieKat · M
No surprises about the contrariness of teenagers lol 🤣
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
@ArtieKat That's their role in life, I supoose!
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
Maybe I'm a weird teen, I have always loved having my own desk and chair.
Nitedoc · 51-55, M
Teenagers. I wish I knew as much as them!
ineedadrink · 51-55, M
Desks are for school, ick. 😁
cd4259 · 61-69, M
Doesn't ever change from age to age.
I remember social studies my senior year of high school, '88/'89, we had beanbags and oversize body pillows instead of desks and chairs, she wanted us comfortable to learn.
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
@NativePortlander1970 Progressive education!
@SunshineGirl Nah, just an old 60's former commune Hippy turned teacher.

 
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