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My two year old still don’t go sleep on her own I have to be in the room for her to go sleep, if I leave she get up and messes about and even wakes her baby sister up just so I come back in.
I’ve tried sitting just outside her room and going in and out every so often I’m running out of ideas.
Her baby sister who is 8 months sleeps so much better but if I’m in the room she fights sleep so you can imagine.
It is partly my own fault I held her a lot when she was a baby she was my first and I just wanted to be with her but know I’m suffering and so is she..,...
Any advice?
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samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
Have you tried melatonin, white noise?
MiraRoss · 31-35, F
@samueltyler2 no I haven’t does that work?
Chasingthesun · 46-50, F
@MiraRoss melatonin gives me horrible NIGHT TERRORS! Please talk to your pediatrician before you try it. I used to read my Bible (any book will do) in my eldests room outloud until he fell asleep. I didn't pay him any attention but I made sure he stayed in bed and my voice and presence comforted him.
assemblingaknob · 26-30, F
@samueltyler2 yes melatonin causes nightmares.
MiraRoss · 31-35, F
@assemblingaknob don’t what her to have nightmares
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
@MiraRoss absolutely speak to your pediatrician. There a pediatric sleep specialists that you might be able to see. Although there are some reports of vivid dreams associated with melatonin, I have suggested its use in hundreds of children, I was a pediatrician, and a toxicologist, and never had a situation in which a child had to have it stopped. Nightmares are far more common when people take Benadryl, or the generic version. At age 3 she is probably not using a computer before bed, but the blue light given off by monitors interferes with the natural production of melatonin by the body, yes the body produces melatonin itself, cyclically to aid in falling asleep. We used in when our grandkids had trouble sleeping. I don't know if it helped them, but it also never caused problems.
MiraRoss · 31-35, F
@samueltyler2 she’s two and there’s no tv or anything like that after tea so plenty of time to relax before bed
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
@MiraRoss tea is somewhat of a stimulant, it has almost as much caffeine as coffee.
MiraRoss · 31-35, F
@samueltyler2 don’t mean tea as in the drink
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
@MiraRoss oh, okay, I took it literally. If you can get to a sleep specialist there really may be ways to help.
MiraRoss · 31-35, F
@samueltyler2 with what’s going on unless it’s an emergency i don’t go out to see people
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
@MiraRoss I would think that you could do this virtually.