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karinaal · 70-79, F
I never thought of my parents as especially strict. They, especially my mother, could be strict in some matters and in some situations but just simply Strict is not a label I would have put on her.
But times and norms were different then and the respect and obedience that parents in general demanded would by most children to day be experienced as strict.
My father used to punish my brother by spanking him with the belt and my mother consistently punished my sister and me for out misconduct by spanking us severely with her hairbrush. It was very normal and they way also our friends were punished at home and we experienced it as the most natural thing in the world that we were spanked when we were naughty. My mother was a little more consistent as spanker than most mothers I knew. She certainly made sure that we got a spanking whenever it was deserved and she did the job very thoroughly but on the other hand she always was fair and I cannot say that I or my sister ever got an undeserved spanking.
But times and norms were different then and the respect and obedience that parents in general demanded would by most children to day be experienced as strict.
My father used to punish my brother by spanking him with the belt and my mother consistently punished my sister and me for out misconduct by spanking us severely with her hairbrush. It was very normal and they way also our friends were punished at home and we experienced it as the most natural thing in the world that we were spanked when we were naughty. My mother was a little more consistent as spanker than most mothers I knew. She certainly made sure that we got a spanking whenever it was deserved and she did the job very thoroughly but on the other hand she always was fair and I cannot say that I or my sister ever got an undeserved spanking.
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karinaal · 70-79, F
If I had still lived at home she no doubt would have done it. Actually I always wondered why she stopped spanking me because the first years I was spending most weekends and my vacations at home and there certainly were times when I would have been spanked if I had still lived there.
erik2000 · 22-25, M
@karinaal: When did your dad stop belting your brother?
karinaal · 70-79, F
when my brother was 13 - 14 his spankings became rare and eventually they stopped but I know that he did get one when he was 16.
Carver · 31-35, F
My mom was strict, my dad was real laid back.
shadowplay · 26-30, M
it wasn't punishment ,there were no reasons other than they enjoyed inflicting pain. beatings ,burns , confinement ,being tied up . the other stuff is not something i talk about much
erik2000 · 22-25, M
That is terrible!
LovelyGorilla · 26-30, F
Both of them were strict. My dad was worse. I would usually get slapped, punched, kicked, hit by a belt, spat on. Lol not anymore tho
erik2000 · 22-25, M
How old were you when he stopped hitting you?
SW-User
No, but my Aunt was. She always hits us with a shovel.
erik2000 · 22-25, M
@CookiePounder: ???
SW-User
@erik2000: I have strong bones.
erik2000 · 22-25, M
@CookiePounder: Haha, I understand now!
PinkPunk · F
after dad died mum started using a belt 😟
i guess its the only way to controls my brother and me
i guess its the only way to controls my brother and me
erik2000 · 22-25, M
Were you naughty?
My parents also say that I can only be controlled by the belt or the cane.
My parents also say that I can only be controlled by the belt or the cane.
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hannahr · 16-17, F
Mammy is really strict, I often get spanked wiv hand, slipper or wooden hairbrush. Get other punishments like cornertime too.
Nicolina15 · 26-30, F
My parents are strict, but only for my own good.