Dads please answer this: why don't dad NEVER want their daughters to date but sons can? Why won't you let your daughters date?

My foster brothers got to date but my foster sister including me weren't allowed intil we were 18. Dad said, "My beautiful daughters will NOT be dating! Boys are just going to use them for sex. They don't care about the girls feelings!"

I can never find a decent man bit my foster mom has my foster dad that treats her well. Then how do your moms have good men?

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MikeSp · 56-60, M

Your Dad explained it for you. Part his fears that you can't defend yourself, or will gladly go along, or will get pregnant, or his scared of losing you. The boys and girls here were allowed to "group" date until it was felt they were mature enough to date alone. Your time will come.

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DarkestDespair · 46-50, M

@BeautiyRose96 Life isn't fair. Anyone that tells you otherwise is selling you something. You'll find someone when the time is right. I know that you may want that time to be right now, but it really isn't all that important in the big scheme of things.

You need to find Mr. Right, not Mr. Right-now. And I think that you will someday. You will find someone that will honor you, respect you, and treat you in a manner that you deserve, but you shouldn't try to rush it. Try to work on developing yourself and exploring the world around you. I think that you'll find that love happens when you least expect it, rather than you actively searching for it.