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Should I stay or should I go?

We are both in our early 30’s
I make decent money. He makes $10 an hour. He needs to go back to school and in my opinion he hasn’t been motivated enough to change anything and it’s taking him way to long to figure out what he wants to do. He wants to get me pregnant... I don’t want to have a kid and be the one responsible for everything on my own- financially and most likely doing most work... and he is supposed to be gone for 1-2 years to go to school. I’m so tired of it all. He wont clean anything unless I tell him to do it. It’s like having a teenager, not a partner. I’m tired of having a husband who can’t get his shit together and who I have to take care of financially. I can do so much better.
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4meAndyou · F
I think I would scratch the pregnant-with-him idea off my list. He is clueless and you have to ask yourself if you want your children to be clueless. Also, if you are making decent money and he isn't, are you going to be able to take time off to have a baby? People who are like him don't get better. He is looking for an easy life and a Mommy. Ask yourself if you want to be his Mommy.
Olhuveli · 36-40, F
@4meAndyou honestly... I don’t even want to have kids. Especially with him. I don’t want to be anyones mommy or to add even more responsibility to my 50-60h a week schedule...